Wednesday, July 26, 2006

Destiny and GOD

"Destiny is what I believe in" is what everyone says..what we think, what we want, all that is mere our imagination and remains only till us.

But if you strive for your dream and run behind it you can make it come true, but such cases are very rare and almost impossible. People say our destiny is written by GOD even before we were born, what I don’t understand here is, if the destiny was written before hand then why is there so much of violence in the world? Why people hate each other's religion? Why are people dying of poverty?

If someone does a great job and is rewarded for it...everyone says that was his destiny and all the credit is given to GOD, but at the same time when someone kills someone or does a bad job...nobody says that was written in his destiny and that he was destined to kill someone or do a bad job...in fact all blame goes to the person who has committed the crime!!!....why such a big discrimination?

I fail to understand the logic behind this and peoples mindset....Is there anyone who can explain?

35 comments:

Fabrice (French people) said...

Hello Stella,
we are living in a free will world. I mean we are responsible of our acts. Please, don't match human religions and spirituality, the first had been enslaving peoples for centuries, and in a way continues, the second is the way of your interior freedom. Leave all the human religions and search for your liberty inside of you ; be aware of yourself ; acting when you are aware of your psychology is not reacting being unaware of your mind.
There are no 'good' and 'evil', God (I prefer the "Energy" because this name "God" is much too connected with human religions, and God has nothing to do with human religions) is all, there is nothing outside of Him. We are too a fragment of the Energy. If you start to think with religions you will be deluded, think by yourself.
The destiny doesn't exist because we are free, we are responsible.
Ok, these are some clues to ponder over.
Excuse me for my poor English.

bhavesh said...

Stella,
I'll just say welcome to the world,
i really appreciate your thoughts on this social issue but i guess we all fail to understand one thing and only one thing that makes this world so cruel and biased , that is indeed "manipulation".

We all manipulate something or the other according to our interest,so thats the reason , we praise god in our hapiness, we blame him for our sadness , we blame destiny for everything that happens to us.

"God" and "destiny" are two different names of a word HOPE which makes this world going .

sameer said...

nice point u hv raised....
acutally every individual should get the credit for what he or she achieving in their work or in life instead of just giving credit to god or nature for it....now about killing ne1....if some1 kill inocent person people blames the person but if soldier is killing some bad person people bless him too....actually it all depend on person to person how they think and take the perticular incident

sameer said...

correct me if i m wrong.....

Anonymous said...

Its not about the discrimination its about the upbringing da social values and ethics. Everyman makes his own destiny and if anything goes wrong blame it on god, well dats wrong. Educating people will help them solve dis social issues.

Anonymous said...

can anyone here explain why do they say that if you do something wrong now you will pay for it probably in your net birth....is that true?

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Sankari C said...

Hi Stella,

You have raised a good question indeed which i have in my mind for a very long time. I believe some useless people dont wont the credit to go to the correct person for their achievements. so they redirect that to god. I dont say that there is no god. that topic is different. Whatever we do (good or bad) belongs to us. wat you say..

saeed said...

Hi stella,


I truly believe in destiny, Yes it is already written by God. God created human being and give him/her the maturity to think of his deeds. some does good and some bad. God has also showed us the way to live in this world, also showed the right path. we are the one's who does not follow it and blames on the destiny. Once we start thinking what we are doing before we act on, truly the world will be a peaceful place to live in.

Once again, I would like to stress that it is our own deed, which determines our destiny. Please think twice or even thrice before act.

Thank you and sorry for my poor English.

Anonymous said...

yes stella
I think you should read bhagawat gita which will give you all ans. on your thinking.
gita is very clear on what we expect from god and what we are today is about karma of yeateryear and it can take to more deeper in the subject
best wishes
nagrajan

satu said...

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Prasanna kumar said...

Dear Stella,
This is Mr.Prasanna Kumar v,
Destinatation in terms of religion It is "God" But destination in general is "Aim at Your Achievement". God In Terms of relegion "Is the Higher authority to command, to rule his Laity" but in general terms is adored,worshiped,loved and ultimatly one with, When we think that God is the infinite while we are finite beings Created by his hand.

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ravindra said...

Hi,
Don't you guys think that we wish to make sense of all that happens all around us and that too with our vision tainted with lots and lots of wishful thinking including sense of "justice" and hence ill- understoo concepts of karma etc. There are mystic elements to all phenomena and only a deep inner meditation in a correct guided manner can be useful.

Stella said...

I am your friend always. I would appreciate if you all give me your honest opinion on my post rather then just asking me to call you.

Thanks
-Stella

Anonymous said...

Hi stella,

This is mari selvam how r u ma, i'm fine.

thiru said...

Hai stella,

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Himanshu said...

himmu said,
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senthil said...

hi stella,
The people who are feared about their future and frustrated about thier life use to believe in the destiny very strongly. This is one kind of the attitude which might be created due to their environment and their family situation.They just want to put good things into the destiny and bad things happened into the individuals. So this makes them to move forward in the destiny way.
The other important fact is this destiny kind of attitude is more seen in the Asian people rather compared to other continent people

Thanks,
Senthil

prasan said...

hey Stella,

Awesome and a matured thought..keep hoing...all the best!!
rgds
prasan

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Anonymous said...

Stella

As i understood the world, its difficult to find the awnser, simply because i found every behaviour, good or bad, helpful or not but does have some reasoning, behind that. they act in a particular manner because they think what they are doing ( some times even though they know is wrong, or they are forced to do so) because of the circumstances which rules over them, they act accordingly.

We should never have any grievences over the act of people. if we can have a impact on the circumstances either individually or collectively, that is the only way we can get away with some of the wrong things in the world.

Anonymous said...

Hi Stella

Well I always wanted to be an journalist .well I have got a lot of stories from my end which can be useful for you ....otherwise we cud be very good frnds ...
wish to meet you ..

take care

Kunal Haldipur

Pradeep said...

HI STELLA,
You are beautiful. I love you .
When can we meet and make love ?

pradeep

shashank said...

hello stella how r u

Anonymous said...

Dear Stella
Destiny is what we make ourselves.We become someone/somebody through what we do.I dont think there is anything called a pre-wriiten destiny, scrpted by God.When we become weak and helpless, we turn to God but in our moments of glory and grandeur we never think of God even once.
In your blog you have used 'behind' after 'run' which is a wrong collocation. Try to avoid this kind of Indianisms.They make your writing less appealing.
all the best.
Keep on writing .You have the flair for it.
With best wishes
Abhilash Nayak

Anonymous said...

GOOD POINT! DESTINY IS A WAY THAT HAS BEEN SET FOR A PERSON TO THRIVE THROUGH IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE HIS FUTURE GOAL. PEOPLE WORSHIP GOD BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE THAT GOD IS THE CREATER AND GENERATOR OF THE WORLD AND IT IS THE GOD THAT BRINGS HEAVEN TO THE PERSON'S LIFE. SIDE-BY-SIDE GOD HELPS THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES. BUT IT IS UP TO THE PERSON WHO DECIDES WHICH WAY TO GO. IF HE WANTS HE CAN FURTHER STANDARDIZE HIMSELF, AND IT IS HIM WHO ACCEPTS CORRUPTED MEASURES THAT LEAD HIM TO THE RESULT OF THE ACTIVITIES UNDERTAKEN BY HIM. THEREFORE IT IS ALWAYS UP TO THE PERSON WHETHER HE WANTS TO BE CLEAN OR EVIL IN LIFE. THAT IS WHY PEOPLE SAY GOOD OR BAD IS ALWAYS IN THE HANDS OF THE PERSON AND NOT GOD!
IN SHORT, GOD IS A LIGHT THAT SPREADS ALL GOODNESS AND HAPPINESS AND PEACE AND OF COURSE, ALL THE POSITIVITIES IN THIS WORLD. AND PERSON THOUGH IS BROUGHT TO THE WORLD BY GOD, IS THE JUDGE WHO DECIDES WHAT TO ACCEPT, WHETHER GOOD OR BAD. AND THUS, HE FINALLY GETS WHAT HE DESERVES!

GAURAV said...

Nice to be your friend.

Its Gaurav Mahajan, developer if http://www.indiangaurav.com/. A website for indians and spirituality.

Nice to know your comments and your question is also very good. But remeber there is always a reason for every action in the universe.

There are generally two types of humans. First who beleive their is a Creator God who creates the Universe and his cretion is perfect. He is most lovable and dearest to us as facther/mtoher/friend of brother or sister.

The second category of people do not believe the existence of Creater and believe that Universe is creating due to priciples of Physics and Chemistry. These people are not stable in mind and beleive they are born just to enjoy and rule. This thinking make all these people to fight to show they are best. This fight cause is lives and emothions.

Although there are uncountable culture in Universe, if we beleive there is the one Creator, who create us, gives us love and living. Every single atom and cell is made by the creator with care and love. If we think as it is, all the voilence problems will be solved. The real problem is closed-minded people do not want to listen these and its duty of people like us to teach them in a creative way that they would accept the fact. This will solve the problem.

You can read my love story at http://www.indiangaurav.com/ls.html. My love taught me what is God and how to meet him. You can learn a lot how she taught me.

shib said...

hello Stella
This is really good topic you put forward but one thing you should always put in mind its not that God has told to believe in destiny its we made this comment on destiny............if you have ever read a book on Swami Vivekananda you will find he describe that we are the maker of our own destiny ...........today what you are and today what I am is because what we have tried to do ...its not the destiny its our own will to come to this position , so we should know that the destiny is that what we strive to desire ...............

regards
Shib

Anonymous said...

We are teaching ourselves to be modest when comes to achivements so that we do not become proudy. However, we want the people to own their actions when it comes to harming someone else area.

smokie said...

the is alwaays a suprem power that is controling the universe. everything in this world born and destory with time. like that one day human being will going to vanished so do our planet earth.

LP said...

Dear Stella

Why don't you try "Women in Love" by D.H.Lawrence and
find out whom you liked most Ursula or Gudrun.

Anonymous said...

hi stella I feel u r something a different from other girls what do U think ? U think queerly and act ---------I dont know .

ashish said...

Hi Stella

I have read ur article related with destiny.It's true to some extent that everybody has his destiny which is written by God.If this word exist than there must be a reason behind it's existence.But i feel that the destiny which is writen by God for every individual can be obtained through only one way, that is perspiration of that individual. And regarding good or bad conduct, if someone indulge in bad activity it's his destiny and if one is doing good activity it's his destiny which is developed only through thier mind set and they are getting there rewards according to the act done by them.
That's it.

Regards

Ashish Chaudhary



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